The Gift of Play

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We created our own little oasis in the backyard yesterday.  We blew up the inflatable swimming pool, plopped it beneath our plastic slide, and added the garden sprinkler for an extra dose of splash. What else is a woman to do with four restless children when the heat index is hovering around one hundred and ten degrees?

 
Armed with a good book and a Diet Coke, I began my post in an old green lawn chair. Though I was clad in a swimming suit, I didn’t plan to submerge anything more than my tired feet. Legs dangling over the cushy edges of the kiddy pool, I dipped my toes into the happily contained puddle and welcomed the spontaneous splashes that tickled my knees when my children launched themselves like loose cannonballs into the cool water.
 
 


Silver droplets streaked Hannah’s tanned face as she stretched her sun-kissed body across a hot pink water ring and bobbed atop the garden-hose-induced waves in lazy contentedness. She closed her eyes and soaked up the sun while I swatted at the sweat beads congregating on my forehead. I set my book down and leaned over the pool’s edge. I cupped my palms and let the wet refreshment dribble through my fingers. My toes begged my elbows to join them. I abandoned my lawn chair and slipped waist deep into the humble waters.  Joshua giggled at the sight. Hannah opened one eye and flashed me a brilliant grin. I turned my hands into a bowl of fingers and gathered thousands of liquid pearls.  A scoop. A splash. A water fight.

 
Before our tummies growled for supper we had nearly emptied the pool with our frolic. We had baptized each other with dainty drizzles and bombed one another with sloppy splashes. We had danced unashamed beneath the sprinkler’s splatters and bounced soaked and soggy on the trampoline. We had introduced splosh to the swings and slosh to the slide, and we had all agreed that wetter is better when the thermometer boasts three digits!
 
The flowers in my back yard were withering beneath the oppressive heat, the grass upon which we danced languished thirsty and brown, and for just a moment the monotony of my grown up life– the pull of the laundry piled high, the dishes cluttering the sink, the Monday-morning to-do-list— wilted, too. As I bounded across the yard chasing my slippery son, I realized something: my feet were no longer tired. When I spun my dripping daughter,  laughed with my bucket-toting tween, and bounded across the grass with my not-so-small baby, something inside of me began to bloom. Placidly. Precipitously. With trickles of giggles and splatters of smiles, joy blossomed.  Fueled by the power of play.  
 

In his brilliant book The Rest of God, Pastor and author Mark Buchanan speculates, “Of all the things Jesus meant when he exhorted his disciples to be childlike, few dare to suggest he wanted them to play more. But maybe he did. Maybe all the other virtues of childhood–trust, humility, simplicity, innocence, wonder- are not separate from a life of playfulness, but the fruit of it: that apart form cartwheels and kite flying, leapfrog and hide-and-seek, snakes and-ladders and digging for buried treasure, all those other things wither.”

 
Today I’m tackling the laundry that sat untouched during yesterday’s wet and wild play-fest. Today I’m baking muffins and planning grocery lists and opening mail. But today my feet aren’t so tired. My mind isn’t so weary. For yesterday I played. Play reminds me that life is an undeserved gift. And motherhood invites me to unwrap that gift with my children one frolicking moment at a time. 
 
The Overflow:   Jesus called a little child to him and put the child among them. Then he said, “I tell you the truth, unless you turn from your sins and become like little children, you will never get into the Kingdom of Heaven.” -Matthew 18:2-3
Alicia

2 Comments

  1. Anonymous says:

    Oh friend – I need the reminder. Thanks. Wish I wanted to play more. 🙂
    ~Robin

  2. This was such a joy to read. Truly! I love that you found joy by jumping into your children’s world…and, “Play reminds me that life is an undeserved gift.” Beautiful!

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